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Judging from the success of the racy novel, Fifty Shades of Grey, there are a lot of people (mainly women) who are fascinated by bondage sex play. Curious but shy about how to approach the subject with your partner? Here are some ideas to get the party started.

Start with something sexy and fun but non-threatening like a blindfold. You can ask your partner to touch you, maybe with a feather tickler while blindfolded and get an intimate conversation started about the loss of control.

If you're already into role-play, wear your naughty schoolgirl costume and tell the principal you have been very bad and need to be punished. Or the French maid who didn't do a good job of cleaning the master's bedroom! If your partner is aroused by the idea of giving you a spanking, find him lingerie a set that includes a paddle.

Restraints are another arousing aspect of this type of sex play. SMBD doesn't have to be painful and isn't limited to whips and chains, it depends on the individuals to decide what they find arousing. Have fun, be respectful and, most of all, really listen to what your partner says.